Ryan Adams
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ask a plate out. she said maybe idk yet lol. I said ok let me know soon. this wasn't night. did I respond accordingly? should I maybe follow up?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what to when she says maybe
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
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Ignore a week . Say "maybe not".
mrgoodstuff
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"actually don't worry about it, I have other plans" . Ignore a week .
Ryan Adams
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I just figured I wont say ****
Ryan Adams
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well this was last night and she never responded. I havent said anything back yet
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
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Fvck that bytch . Maybe go fvck a good go-to babe.
Life is weird, you start fvcking one then the other wants you.
Do not validate this bytch .She wants to know your waiting .
Have you fvcked her yet? If not she gets no more of your attention. That means none .
mrgoodstuff
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Good man...
Don't respond for a week . Let her send about a half dozen texts you dont respond to. Cause she will send out a "feeler" text just to see your still "online". That text may read:
"Wyd"
"Good morning"
"How are you?"
Don't respond . Those are cheap attempts to get attention .
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Ryan Adams
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never fvcked only kissed
mrgoodstuff
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Fvck her.
mrgoodstuff
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Listen to some AMS (Alpha male strategies) YouTube's on "validation".
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ryan Adams
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so never contact again?
mrgoodstuff
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Spend the 10 minutes to listen to AMS YouTube on validation. Then report back .
Fvck her, fvck that maybe, fvck flakes.
Be a fan of yourself.
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Her: Maybe IDK yet
Me (2 hrs later): No problem...I will take advantage of others plans. Take care though
Thats it. I dont circle the wagon back around a week later like other's suggest to do. She knows how to reach me if she wants to smash.
If there is no definite counteroffer for a specific day its dueces. Adios. C-ya.
Me (2 hrs later): No problem...I will take advantage of others plans. Take care though
Thats it. I dont circle the wagon back around a week later like other's suggest to do. She knows how to reach me if she wants to smash.
If there is no definite counteroffer for a specific day its dueces. Adios. C-ya.
Low interest. Anything but a yes is a no blah blah blah. Your game wasn’t good enough with this one. Find new girls that make it easy for you. She thinks she has more value than you. Never reach out twice, wait for her to contact and when she does set up a date. Two strike rule.
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Her: Maybe IDK yet
Me (2 hrs later): No problem...I will take advantage of others plans. Take care though
Thats it. I dont circle the wagon back around a week later like other's suggest to do. She knows how to reach me if she wants to smash.
If there is no definite counteroffer for a specific day its dueces. Adios. C-ya.
I agree. “Maybe idk” means no or if nothing else comes through then yes. Don’t bother contacting her again. It’s obvious her interest is low. Let her do all of the reaching out first. Let her bring up getting together.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ryan Adams
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yeah she just snapchatted me a pic of her at the pool lol
mrgoodstuff
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Her: Maybe IDK yet
Me (2 hrs later): No problem...I will take advantage of others plans. Take care though
Thats it. I dont circle the wagon back around a week later like other's suggest to do. She knows how to reach me if she wants to smash.
If there is no definite counteroffer for a specific day its dueces. Adios. C-ya.
Still ignore . She's showing off. It's like a guy friend whose not reliable for shyt, but he wants you to be there for him to show off
Watch that AMS vid my brother.
Ryan Adams
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im at work but I will when I get home to watch
mrgoodstuff
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Im about to watch that for lunch.
AMS is a bastard, but if your dating he's maxxed everything out to be in the man's benefit.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.