Ryan Adams
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ask a plate out. she said maybe idk yet lol. I said ok let me know soon. this wasn't night. did I respond accordingly? should I maybe follow up?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
what to when she says maybe
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ignore a week . Say "maybe not".
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"actually don't worry about it, I have other plans" . Ignore a week .
Ryan Adams
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I just figured I wont say ****
Ryan Adams
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well this was last night and she never responded. I havent said anything back yet
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
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Fvck that bytch . Maybe go fvck a good go-to babe.
Life is weird, you start fvcking one then the other wants you.
Do not validate this bytch .She wants to know your waiting .
Have you fvcked her yet? If not she gets no more of your attention. That means none .
mrgoodstuff
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Good man...
Don't respond for a week . Let her send about a half dozen texts you dont respond to. Cause she will send out a "feeler" text just to see your still "online". That text may read:
"Wyd"
"Good morning"
"How are you?"
Don't respond . Those are cheap attempts to get attention .
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Ryan Adams
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never fvcked only kissed
mrgoodstuff
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Fvck her.
mrgoodstuff
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Listen to some AMS (Alpha male strategies) YouTube's on "validation".
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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so never contact again?
mrgoodstuff
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Spend the 10 minutes to listen to AMS YouTube on validation. Then report back .
Fvck her, fvck that maybe, fvck flakes.
Be a fan of yourself.
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Her: Maybe IDK yet
Me (2 hrs later): No problem...I will take advantage of others plans. Take care though
Thats it. I dont circle the wagon back around a week later like other's suggest to do. She knows how to reach me if she wants to smash.
If there is no definite counteroffer for a specific day its dueces. Adios. C-ya.
Me (2 hrs later): No problem...I will take advantage of others plans. Take care though
Thats it. I dont circle the wagon back around a week later like other's suggest to do. She knows how to reach me if she wants to smash.
If there is no definite counteroffer for a specific day its dueces. Adios. C-ya.
Low interest. Anything but a yes is a no blah blah blah. Your game wasn’t good enough with this one. Find new girls that make it easy for you. She thinks she has more value than you. Never reach out twice, wait for her to contact and when she does set up a date. Two strike rule.
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Her: Maybe IDK yet
Me (2 hrs later): No problem...I will take advantage of others plans. Take care though
Thats it. I dont circle the wagon back around a week later like other's suggest to do. She knows how to reach me if she wants to smash.
If there is no definite counteroffer for a specific day its dueces. Adios. C-ya.
I agree. “Maybe idk” means no or if nothing else comes through then yes. Don’t bother contacting her again. It’s obvious her interest is low. Let her do all of the reaching out first. Let her bring up getting together.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ryan Adams
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yeah she just snapchatted me a pic of her at the pool lol
mrgoodstuff
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Her: Maybe IDK yet
Me (2 hrs later): No problem...I will take advantage of others plans. Take care though
Thats it. I dont circle the wagon back around a week later like other's suggest to do. She knows how to reach me if she wants to smash.
If there is no definite counteroffer for a specific day its dueces. Adios. C-ya.
Still ignore . She's showing off. It's like a guy friend whose not reliable for shyt, but he wants you to be there for him to show off
Watch that AMS vid my brother.
Ryan Adams
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im at work but I will when I get home to watch
mrgoodstuff
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Im about to watch that for lunch.
AMS is a bastard, but if your dating he's maxxed everything out to be in the man's benefit.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.