"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to text when she’s out of town?

MoreThanSmooth

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Had a really good night the other day with a friend of a friend at a bar.

One of my female friends knows a smoking hot girl and she set us up a bit by getting me a seat next to her. We got on really well and I spent most of the night just flat out cuddling with her, gave her a kiss at the end of the evening too. Awesome.

Thing is, she lives out of town about 50 miles away. Haven’t texted at all so far since I wanted to keep things cool, but l know she doesn’t visit often.

Is that a big deal or should I just drop a “great night” text like normal?

Also don’t wanna come on too strong to this chick I just met. I find it’s too easy to sound desperate with text.

Thanks fellas.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MoreThanSmooth

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Thank you for the replies gentlemen!
Took a chance and texted her and it's going great. She's messaging me a whole bunch now. I'm taking it easy and just letting her chat, not replying right away etc. etc.

She's a total cutie though. I will see if I can see her next time I'm in her city.
 

cola

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Just a nice text every other day, nothing needy.. “How’s your week” .. or “Thought about you today, just seeing how your doing”

Or if you end up doing something fun like going to get food a picture of your plate of food and ask “Jealous?
And of course schedule dates.
 

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Agree with @cola

You should use this technique to stay relevant, but you should also up the sexual/romantic vibe...
invite her to yours for the weekend, dont ask her if you can come see her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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