"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What to text when she’s out of town?

MoreThanSmooth

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Had a really good night the other day with a friend of a friend at a bar.

One of my female friends knows a smoking hot girl and she set us up a bit by getting me a seat next to her. We got on really well and I spent most of the night just flat out cuddling with her, gave her a kiss at the end of the evening too. Awesome.

Thing is, she lives out of town about 50 miles away. Haven’t texted at all so far since I wanted to keep things cool, but l know she doesn’t visit often.

Is that a big deal or should I just drop a “great night” text like normal?

Also don’t wanna come on too strong to this chick I just met. I find it’s too easy to sound desperate with text.

Thanks fellas.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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MoreThanSmooth

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Thank you for the replies gentlemen!
Took a chance and texted her and it's going great. She's messaging me a whole bunch now. I'm taking it easy and just letting her chat, not replying right away etc. etc.

She's a total cutie though. I will see if I can see her next time I'm in her city.
 

cola

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Just a nice text every other day, nothing needy.. “How’s your week” .. or “Thought about you today, just seeing how your doing”

Or if you end up doing something fun like going to get food a picture of your plate of food and ask “Jealous?
And of course schedule dates.
 

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Agree with @cola

You should use this technique to stay relevant, but you should also up the sexual/romantic vibe...
invite her to yours for the weekend, dont ask her if you can come see her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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