"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what to tell her in my message?

nvictor

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She's already sent me three messages. She deserve one. But what do I say in my cell phone message? It's more easy on phone. You see before all this DJ stuff I would say "good night, sweet dreams, I miss u, think about me..."

Now I use these expressions rarely.
So do you have an idea of what I can say?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jack McCrack

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Depends on what she said.

I'd go with "I pick my nose".
 

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Nothing. Stop e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting. Dial her number, and talk to her. Better yet, restrict yourself to only carrying on conversations with her in person.
 

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Demon said:
Nothing. Stop e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting. Dial her number, and talk to her. Better yet, restrict yourself to only carrying on conversations with her in person.

Good idea. But if you must, try something like 'cya, try not to think about me to much'.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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nvictor

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Thanks for your advice. Oh! I really like our style Demon. She didn't even wait for my message to send me this "Bring me something tomorrow I'd be happy". Which I'm planing to answer "Oh my! What happened to the old days when women buy chocolate for men?"

Who is she? She is a co-worker :D But you know what? We are young, both twenties. She's on internship (hoping to get the job). I'm leaving soon. So why not?

But I'd avoid her most of the time at work. And talk to her seriously when we are leaving, or during pause-cafés... I'm not at her feet, as everyone else is doing. And you know what? She likes it. :)
 
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