"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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what to tell her in my message?

nvictor

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She's already sent me three messages. She deserve one. But what do I say in my cell phone message? It's more easy on phone. You see before all this DJ stuff I would say "good night, sweet dreams, I miss u, think about me..."

Now I use these expressions rarely.
So do you have an idea of what I can say?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Jack McCrack

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Depends on what she said.

I'd go with "I pick my nose".
 

Demon

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Nothing. Stop e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting. Dial her number, and talk to her. Better yet, restrict yourself to only carrying on conversations with her in person.
 

Kings_royalty

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Demon said:
Nothing. Stop e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting. Dial her number, and talk to her. Better yet, restrict yourself to only carrying on conversations with her in person.

Good idea. But if you must, try something like 'cya, try not to think about me to much'.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nvictor

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Thanks for your advice. Oh! I really like our style Demon. She didn't even wait for my message to send me this "Bring me something tomorrow I'd be happy". Which I'm planing to answer "Oh my! What happened to the old days when women buy chocolate for men?"

Who is she? She is a co-worker :D But you know what? We are young, both twenties. She's on internship (hoping to get the job). I'm leaving soon. So why not?

But I'd avoid her most of the time at work. And talk to her seriously when we are leaving, or during pause-cafés... I'm not at her feet, as everyone else is doing. And you know what? She likes it. :)
 
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