"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what to tell her in my message?

nvictor

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She's already sent me three messages. She deserve one. But what do I say in my cell phone message? It's more easy on phone. You see before all this DJ stuff I would say "good night, sweet dreams, I miss u, think about me..."

Now I use these expressions rarely.
So do you have an idea of what I can say?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jack McCrack

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Depends on what she said.

I'd go with "I pick my nose".
 

Demon

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Nothing. Stop e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting. Dial her number, and talk to her. Better yet, restrict yourself to only carrying on conversations with her in person.
 

Kings_royalty

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Demon said:
Nothing. Stop e-mailing, instant messaging, and texting. Dial her number, and talk to her. Better yet, restrict yourself to only carrying on conversations with her in person.

Good idea. But if you must, try something like 'cya, try not to think about me to much'.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nvictor

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Thanks for your advice. Oh! I really like our style Demon. She didn't even wait for my message to send me this "Bring me something tomorrow I'd be happy". Which I'm planing to answer "Oh my! What happened to the old days when women buy chocolate for men?"

Who is she? She is a co-worker :D But you know what? We are young, both twenties. She's on internship (hoping to get the job). I'm leaving soon. So why not?

But I'd avoid her most of the time at work. And talk to her seriously when we are leaving, or during pause-cafés... I'm not at her feet, as everyone else is doing. And you know what? She likes it. :)
 
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