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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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What to talk about with females?

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I know this has probably been discussed over and over again on these forums but help me out here.

What are some topics to talk with females about...you know **** that can keep a convo going and keep the female interested. :up:
 

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I dunno... What is the particular one you're talking about interested in?
 

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Basically what im asking is...it could even be texting like AIM or something, you know female hits you up and says whatsup... instead of the normal Chilling or Nothing, you? You know like what could you talk about...
 

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Bonafide said:
Basically what im asking is...it could even be texting like AIM or something, you know female hits you up and says whatsup... instead of the normal Chilling or Nothing, you? You know like what could you talk about...
Funny stories that have happened to you.
Fashion/GQ/Health/Dieting/Fitness
Hobbies/Travel
Sex
Music
Entertainment/News

Things to avoid with most women early on:
Religion
Politics
 
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Bonafide said:
Basically what im asking is...it could even be texting like AIM or something, you know female hits you up and says whatsup... instead of the normal Chilling or Nothing, you? You know like what could you talk about...
Don't say How's the weather, lol.. When I talked my friend Coco (internet name) lol on MSN we talked about everything and anything under the sun.. She talked about her family, and I would ask questions about her culture, and tell her stuff that I'm currently doing.

Basicly no pressure kind of talk.... avoid talking about negetive things like.. school shootings, drugs, ect ect.. Also don't change the subject on her..listen to her, even if it's boring.

Be funny, and candid... I would send my friend Coco a song and we would listen to it together at the same time over the internet... We would type fastly the words to see how close in sync we were playing the song.

Pretty cool to do that with a cool girl from so far away.
 

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Bonafide said:
Basically what im asking is...it could even be texting like AIM or something, you know female hits you up and says whatsup... instead of the normal Chilling or Nothing, you? You know like what could you talk about...
Texting isn't having a conversation. Texting is what women do when they're bored. Re-read your post, are you typically readily available for their entertainment?
 

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cant u talk with people? if no, im very sorry but would advise u to go improve on that. but if u can do that and only facing probs when talking to women, treat them as normal people and chat the hell outta them. lol why should there be any specific topic as long as u two are enjoying it and are feeling that upbeat emotion or that connection. thats it. and just tell u a secret, connection is not built with normal boring formality-type questions but with invading exciting questions. ok, i give u some help here (sorry if my english is a bit too hard for u ;)):

when she says "sup?" u say, "nothing........thats wat probably said by everyone says, so lemme say something different, maybe 'yesthing'" and u r in! next ask questions like "did u ever try an escort?" and follow it up with a funny story of urs and so on.... but dont feel pressured to use this type of cheeky comments all the time. it shud be here and there as u like and also remember to ask normal question like "what u do?" "do u have a boyfriend?"....

hope this helps.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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