"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to talk about with females?

Bonafide

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I know this has probably been discussed over and over again on these forums but help me out here.

What are some topics to talk with females about...you know **** that can keep a convo going and keep the female interested. :up:
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I dunno... What is the particular one you're talking about interested in?
 

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Basically what im asking is...it could even be texting like AIM or something, you know female hits you up and says whatsup... instead of the normal Chilling or Nothing, you? You know like what could you talk about...
 

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Bonafide said:
Basically what im asking is...it could even be texting like AIM or something, you know female hits you up and says whatsup... instead of the normal Chilling or Nothing, you? You know like what could you talk about...
Funny stories that have happened to you.
Fashion/GQ/Health/Dieting/Fitness
Hobbies/Travel
Sex
Music
Entertainment/News

Things to avoid with most women early on:
Religion
Politics
 
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Bonafide said:
Basically what im asking is...it could even be texting like AIM or something, you know female hits you up and says whatsup... instead of the normal Chilling or Nothing, you? You know like what could you talk about...
Don't say How's the weather, lol.. When I talked my friend Coco (internet name) lol on MSN we talked about everything and anything under the sun.. She talked about her family, and I would ask questions about her culture, and tell her stuff that I'm currently doing.

Basicly no pressure kind of talk.... avoid talking about negetive things like.. school shootings, drugs, ect ect.. Also don't change the subject on her..listen to her, even if it's boring.

Be funny, and candid... I would send my friend Coco a song and we would listen to it together at the same time over the internet... We would type fastly the words to see how close in sync we were playing the song.

Pretty cool to do that with a cool girl from so far away.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Bonafide said:
Basically what im asking is...it could even be texting like AIM or something, you know female hits you up and says whatsup... instead of the normal Chilling or Nothing, you? You know like what could you talk about...
Texting isn't having a conversation. Texting is what women do when they're bored. Re-read your post, are you typically readily available for their entertainment?
 

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cant u talk with people? if no, im very sorry but would advise u to go improve on that. but if u can do that and only facing probs when talking to women, treat them as normal people and chat the hell outta them. lol why should there be any specific topic as long as u two are enjoying it and are feeling that upbeat emotion or that connection. thats it. and just tell u a secret, connection is not built with normal boring formality-type questions but with invading exciting questions. ok, i give u some help here (sorry if my english is a bit too hard for u ;)):

when she says "sup?" u say, "nothing........thats wat probably said by everyone says, so lemme say something different, maybe 'yesthing'" and u r in! next ask questions like "did u ever try an escort?" and follow it up with a funny story of urs and so on.... but dont feel pressured to use this type of cheeky comments all the time. it shud be here and there as u like and also remember to ask normal question like "what u do?" "do u have a boyfriend?"....

hope this helps.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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