"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What to say..

TBG

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Normally I don't struggle coming up with things to say but I am now.

Some back story. I was getting tattooed a few months back and got talking to one of the female tattooists guesting at the studio. However it turned out that the guy (also guesting) that was tattooing me was her boyfriend so that was that.

Anyways it looks like they've broken up and she's moved back into the area (she was originally from my city) and is permanently working at studio. On Instagram I liked a photo put up by the studio which just happened to be by her. Couple hours later she started following me on Instagram. Doesn't look like she followed anyone else so I'm guessing she remembered me.

I wanna shoot of a message whilst the iron is hot so any suggestions what to say?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Kotaix

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Talk about the artwork. Feed her some compliments.
 
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