"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to say..

TBG

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Normally I don't struggle coming up with things to say but I am now.

Some back story. I was getting tattooed a few months back and got talking to one of the female tattooists guesting at the studio. However it turned out that the guy (also guesting) that was tattooing me was her boyfriend so that was that.

Anyways it looks like they've broken up and she's moved back into the area (she was originally from my city) and is permanently working at studio. On Instagram I liked a photo put up by the studio which just happened to be by her. Couple hours later she started following me on Instagram. Doesn't look like she followed anyone else so I'm guessing she remembered me.

I wanna shoot of a message whilst the iron is hot so any suggestions what to say?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kotaix

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Talk about the artwork. Feed her some compliments.
 
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