"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

What to say..

TBG

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 7, 2017
Messages
123
Reaction score
101
Age
37
Normally I don't struggle coming up with things to say but I am now.

Some back story. I was getting tattooed a few months back and got talking to one of the female tattooists guesting at the studio. However it turned out that the guy (also guesting) that was tattooing me was her boyfriend so that was that.

Anyways it looks like they've broken up and she's moved back into the area (she was originally from my city) and is permanently working at studio. On Instagram I liked a photo put up by the studio which just happened to be by her. Couple hours later she started following me on Instagram. Doesn't look like she followed anyone else so I'm guessing she remembered me.

I wanna shoot of a message whilst the iron is hot so any suggestions what to say?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Kotaix

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2019
Messages
2,236
Reaction score
2,822
Age
48
Talk about the artwork. Feed her some compliments.
 
Top