Findog said:
"You're okay with us just being friends, right? I just have a lot going on right now, I gotta figure some stuff out...
Obviously I have no interest in being her beta orbiter and will pursue other plates and stop contacting her...
What should I have said? What do you say when a girl just straight out friendzones you like this?
Well, she was being up front and honest with you, why don't you simply return the favor? No need to be butt hurt.
It's completely possible that she's searching the interwebs for varying levels of male. If she meets her "alpha" she'll open up her legs.
Every other guy gets put in the "emergency use only" friend zone.
So, unless you were trying to "pretend" to be OK with being her friend so you could sneak into her pants (which you said you weren't) why not be completely honest?
"Well, I certainly understand where you're coming from. However, I was using that particular site find somebody for a potential romantic relationship. If you're not interested in that, which I totally understand, then I guess that's that."
And then politely excuse yourself.
After all, you're looking to get laid, and she's not (at least with you) why make it so dramatic?
Thanks but no thanks, honey.