"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What to say when she asks 'so are we together then?'

Guitar_Whizz

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Hi, mentioned in a previous post that I'm seeing 2 girls, however I don't want to get too serious with 1 of these girls. At a lunch date last week 1 girl asked me if me and her were actually an item, as in are we 'going out' like boyfriend and girlfriend. That question REALLY put me on the spot!!! I replied 'well I prefer to get to know a girl before rushing headlong into a relationship'....was that a good reply, or is there something better I could say?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJDamage

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When a girl asks you that question, don't try to avoid it but just tell her the truth.

"I do enjoy the dating aspect and I am currently not intrested in a relationship"

She can either take it or leave it. Avoiding the question will cause you more headaches down the road.
 
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This is gold. Thank me later:

I value what we have, but I am too busy for a serious relationship
 

ScrewIt

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
This is gold. Thank me later:

I value what we have, but I am too busy for a serious relationship
wait isnt it a **** test to see where this is all going??

and wouldnt saying the above ruin the possibility of a LTR?
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
and wouldnt saying the above ruin the possibility of a LTR?
He just said he wasn't interested in an LTR.

If that's what you're into, your response changes somewhat. But he doesn't want to get tied down to this girl.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I think it was a good reply (of course if you are portraying the correct body language). Follow up by saying too many relationships that would turn out great are ruined, because things moved too quick.
 

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So basically a girl submitted herself to be yours. She gave up all her power to you and you were put off by her question. You should have manned-up and said Hell yes you are mine. The key is you said you are MINE! Women were put here for us, they are yours. Too many guys try to get women by pushing them away. Whether you want a one night stand, or ltr you better act as if you want to OWN her. Women only want to be claimed. That want bf stories. That is women cheat, when you dont claim them but somebody else will. Their nature is to be possessed. Someone must be in charge, if you dont she will. Its the natural order of all relationships with people. Some one must always be the leader wheather you realize or not.

Own her soul you own her soildier!
 
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