"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What to say when she asks 'so are we together then?'

Guitar_Whizz

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Hi, mentioned in a previous post that I'm seeing 2 girls, however I don't want to get too serious with 1 of these girls. At a lunch date last week 1 girl asked me if me and her were actually an item, as in are we 'going out' like boyfriend and girlfriend. That question REALLY put me on the spot!!! I replied 'well I prefer to get to know a girl before rushing headlong into a relationship'....was that a good reply, or is there something better I could say?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage

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When a girl asks you that question, don't try to avoid it but just tell her the truth.

"I do enjoy the dating aspect and I am currently not intrested in a relationship"

She can either take it or leave it. Avoiding the question will cause you more headaches down the road.
 
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This is gold. Thank me later:

I value what we have, but I am too busy for a serious relationship
 

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Originally posted by Happiness Renewed
This is gold. Thank me later:

I value what we have, but I am too busy for a serious relationship
wait isnt it a **** test to see where this is all going??

and wouldnt saying the above ruin the possibility of a LTR?
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
and wouldnt saying the above ruin the possibility of a LTR?
He just said he wasn't interested in an LTR.

If that's what you're into, your response changes somewhat. But he doesn't want to get tied down to this girl.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I think it was a good reply (of course if you are portraying the correct body language). Follow up by saying too many relationships that would turn out great are ruined, because things moved too quick.
 

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So basically a girl submitted herself to be yours. She gave up all her power to you and you were put off by her question. You should have manned-up and said Hell yes you are mine. The key is you said you are MINE! Women were put here for us, they are yours. Too many guys try to get women by pushing them away. Whether you want a one night stand, or ltr you better act as if you want to OWN her. Women only want to be claimed. That want bf stories. That is women cheat, when you dont claim them but somebody else will. Their nature is to be possessed. Someone must be in charge, if you dont she will. Its the natural order of all relationships with people. Some one must always be the leader wheather you realize or not.

Own her soul you own her soildier!
 
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