"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What to say to girls to give them mixed signals

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Ex - Your hanging out with your friends and you want to say bye to the girls but you dont want to be to upfront and seem obsessive. Or your dont want to say bye like its forover. What can I say to make it like i want to see them again but not overly much.

How about, see you around?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sometimes I'd give a quick "later" without much attention. Sometimes I'd look right into the girl's eye's and say "I'll see YOU later". Sometimes I don't say anything except a smile and quick nod. Other times I'd give a hug to everyone. Then there are times when I'd give quick kino to the target and a "see ya".

You want to know how to send mixed signals? Mix it up.
 

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Voice said:
Sometimes I'd give a quick "later" without much attention. Sometimes I'd look right into the girl's eye's and say "I'll see YOU later". Sometimes I don't say anything except a smile and quick nod. Other times I'd give a hug to everyone. Then there are times when I'd give quick kino to the target and a "see ya".

You want to know how to send mixed signals? Mix it up.
You just explained me to a tee bro lol...What about a girl you never meet before?

I like the whole looking into the eyes and saying ill see you later.
 

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Say goodbye to the group and then look at the chick you're into and give you a smile and "see you later." Why send mixed signals? Doesn't make any sense...look at her and tell her you will see her later. And then see her later.

Would you want to be with somebody who plays the mixed signals game or somebody who says what they want? Exactly.
 

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Yes, simple statements like...

"We'll talk again soon.."
"Keep in touch..."
"See you in a bit..."
"Until next time (smile)"

No need for mixed signals at this point. You're only obsessive and upfront if you refuse to leave the ladies alone.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Crissco said:
Ex - Your hanging out with your friends and you want to say bye to the girls but you dont want to be to upfront and seem obsessive. Or your dont want to say bye like its forover. What can I say to make it like i want to see them again but not overly much.

How about, see you around?
Nah, theres no such thing. Alot of girls who get these kind of mixed signals will not waste their time on you. Theres many other guys out there that will give them the attention. Its not about giving them the attention but how you do it. Many guys do it the AFC way thats what they dont understand, to give attention the right way. YOu have to show them that you are interested in them (in a confident, i dont care if i dont get your number way) and get the number. If they dont give it, it means they are not interested and you can move on to the next one instead of playing these games. Best thing to do is to KINO so if she reciprocates, no one is wasting their time ! If she reacts negatively, move on. Theres millions out there.

WHat you need to do if you really want to get something going with a girl in the shortest amount of time so that no one wastes their time is to demonstrate to the girl that you are sexual and not the friendzone material. YOu do this by giving them that s3xual confident stare while you are talking to them and never looking away. This will automatically set you as sexual and if they are interested, you will get in their pants faster than you think.
 

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Crissco said:
You just explained me to a tee bro lol...What about a girl you never meet before?

I like the whole looking into the eyes and saying ill see you later.
There's really no point in sending mixed signals to a girl you never met. The whole mixed signal thing is just a result of the way you are. Basically if you have other options, you're going to be sending mixed signals to girls because the girl can sense you are not desperate since you act like there are other girls you can get. Like Pook said this will "kill that desperation". And desperation is exactly what turns girls off.

When meeting a new girl just remember these three things Pook said:

YOU are the prize
Embrace your sexuality
FUN should be the focus

These are in no particular order because they are all equally important. Really I think these three things are all you need to know to be successful with girls. We make things too complicated on this board.
 
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