Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You just explained me to a tee bro lol...What about a girl you never meet before?Voice said:Sometimes I'd give a quick "later" without much attention. Sometimes I'd look right into the girl's eye's and say "I'll see YOU later". Sometimes I don't say anything except a smile and quick nod. Other times I'd give a hug to everyone. Then there are times when I'd give quick kino to the target and a "see ya".
You want to know how to send mixed signals? Mix it up.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Nah, theres no such thing. Alot of girls who get these kind of mixed signals will not waste their time on you. Theres many other guys out there that will give them the attention. Its not about giving them the attention but how you do it. Many guys do it the AFC way thats what they dont understand, to give attention the right way. YOu have to show them that you are interested in them (in a confident, i dont care if i dont get your number way) and get the number. If they dont give it, it means they are not interested and you can move on to the next one instead of playing these games. Best thing to do is to KINO so if she reciprocates, no one is wasting their time ! If she reacts negatively, move on. Theres millions out there.Crissco said:Ex - Your hanging out with your friends and you want to say bye to the girls but you dont want to be to upfront and seem obsessive. Or your dont want to say bye like its forover. What can I say to make it like i want to see them again but not overly much.
How about, see you around?
There's really no point in sending mixed signals to a girl you never met. The whole mixed signal thing is just a result of the way you are. Basically if you have other options, you're going to be sending mixed signals to girls because the girl can sense you are not desperate since you act like there are other girls you can get. Like Pook said this will "kill that desperation". And desperation is exactly what turns girls off.Crissco said:You just explained me to a tee bro lol...What about a girl you never meet before?
I like the whole looking into the eyes and saying ill see you later.