You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You just explained me to a tee bro lol...What about a girl you never meet before?Voice said:Sometimes I'd give a quick "later" without much attention. Sometimes I'd look right into the girl's eye's and say "I'll see YOU later". Sometimes I don't say anything except a smile and quick nod. Other times I'd give a hug to everyone. Then there are times when I'd give quick kino to the target and a "see ya".
You want to know how to send mixed signals? Mix it up.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Nah, theres no such thing. Alot of girls who get these kind of mixed signals will not waste their time on you. Theres many other guys out there that will give them the attention. Its not about giving them the attention but how you do it. Many guys do it the AFC way thats what they dont understand, to give attention the right way. YOu have to show them that you are interested in them (in a confident, i dont care if i dont get your number way) and get the number. If they dont give it, it means they are not interested and you can move on to the next one instead of playing these games. Best thing to do is to KINO so if she reciprocates, no one is wasting their time ! If she reacts negatively, move on. Theres millions out there.Crissco said:Ex - Your hanging out with your friends and you want to say bye to the girls but you dont want to be to upfront and seem obsessive. Or your dont want to say bye like its forover. What can I say to make it like i want to see them again but not overly much.
How about, see you around?
There's really no point in sending mixed signals to a girl you never met. The whole mixed signal thing is just a result of the way you are. Basically if you have other options, you're going to be sending mixed signals to girls because the girl can sense you are not desperate since you act like there are other girls you can get. Like Pook said this will "kill that desperation". And desperation is exactly what turns girls off.Crissco said:You just explained me to a tee bro lol...What about a girl you never meet before?
I like the whole looking into the eyes and saying ill see you later.