"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What to say to girl who asks you if shes fat?
- Thread starter Bonez
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
- "If I had an opinion about that, it shouldn't matter."
- "I don't know, what do you think?"
- "I'm no good at that stuff, you shouldn't ask me."
- "Why are you asking?"
Myriad By Python
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backbreaker
Master Don Juan
"I'm glad you bought up the 300 pound elephant in the room, but yeah babe... you need to put the donuts down"
Thanks backbreaker, I knew she was fat and I didn't feel like playing along since I was working. I still felt shy when she slapped me, but I know her family, and her little bro is my little bros pal. Maybe next time I should just tell her yes? She's not ****able to me.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
VERBAL AKIDO SOLUTIONS:
1) OH I THOUGHT U MEANT PHAT (pretty, hot and tempting)
2) JUST MORE OF YOU TO ADORE BABY
3) YOU'RE NOT FAT, YOU JUST GOT CURVES
4) WELL YOU'RE NOT ROSIE FAT, i mean Goodyear is not written anywhere on your body.
5) UMMM YOU JUST NEED SOME TONING UP A BIT
6) NO .........BUT THEN AGAIN I AM NOT WEARING MY CONTACTS
7) WELL LOOK AT IT THIS WAY, NICOLE RICHIE THINKS SHE IS FAT SOMETIMES, TO THE REST OF THE WORLD SHE IS A STICK.
8) NO OF COURSE YOU ARE NOT FAT....ITS THE REST OF THE PLANET THATS SLIM.
OR YOU COULD DO THE OLD SHOVE A TWIX CANDY BAR IN YOUR MOUTH
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
'no but your getting there'
i cant wait to use that one Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
... or just playfully poke her tummy with your finger.
Just kidding. Depends upon circumstances.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
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Haha BB, you inadvertently made a slight and a joke.backbreaker said:
The saying goes.. "No one noticed the 700 pound gorilla in the room!!"
A 300 pound elephant is a very small one.
I told her "I don't answer questions like that". She kept hounding me but I stuck to my guns and she eventually dropped it.
Don't be afraid to call a woman out on this kind of sh!t. It's rude to put you on the spot with a stupid ass question like that.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.