"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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what to say to a female who ask you to buy her a drink

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HER: buy me a drink.:
ME: Yeah sure... (then don't buy anything, just talk and have fun with her
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Yer a friend has a different spin on that which totally blows them away.

HER: buy me a drink.:
ME: Yeah sure... (then go to the bar and come back with a glass of water)

The buy me a drink routine is so ****en old so you can even just say

ME: Thats the worse pickup line ever, do you girls have any creativity? You got 20 secs to think of a witty pickup line or no drink (put the pressure on them).

BUT the exception is that sometimes the girl is actually interested in you and this is the only way she can initiate a conversation. So dont treat all chicks like money hungry wh0res.

If you get bored at clubs then try the role reversal. Me and my friends try to see how many chicks will buy us drinks. AND IT DOES WORK cos the HB's are surprised and think you've got a set of big balls for even suggesting that, and the other chicks are intimidated or cant think of a good come back and give in.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The best answer I've ever heard comes from a movie "Buying the cow":
- Will you buy me a drink?
- Bartender, one beer for my friend.

Now bartender pours the beer in front of a girl, after that the guy quickly slides it away from her, and moves it to his male friend sitting next to him :)

- You should stop drinking anyway.
- Why? I just got here.
- Because you're driving me home.

:)

Regards,
Carbani
 
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I totaly agree this chic who was cheatin on her boyfirend of 6 years with me (I had no clue)... used to brag about her guys would always buy her drinks at clubs and basicly she just drinks and moves on or would give the drinks to her friends, as buying a woman a drink means absolutely NOTHING!....

Do not BUY THEM drinks, unless you already have the #. :)
 
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If a girl I haven't known for some time (couple months / a year) asks me to buy her a drink I honestly don't know what I'd do.... I mean I love the ****y lines u guys came up with but seriously, now that I know how much some women like to play the princess card I think I'd just tell em "good night" and go for another gal...
Peace.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Tell her she's not your girlfriend and you just met so she can buy/get her own. However, if she gets you one, then maybe you can grace her with conversation.
 
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SamePendo said:
If you want to get rid of her, tell the barman/waiter/whatever, to get her a glass of water.
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ahah thats funny
 
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Real situation...my buddies were cracking up from this:

Girl: want to buy me a drink?
Me: wow...sure! I'd love to buy you a drink
Girl: :D BEAMING SMILE
Me: NOOOOOOOOT! (borat style)

ahahahah she was like WHAT.....the.....FVCK

Did a typical girl "ugh" rolling eyes and left. Left her purse there though. I was like, "you left your tampons!"
 
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NO! unless she showed plenty of interest in you long before asking for said drink.. One girl told me she asked me to buy her a drink when I met her cause she wanted to talk to...LOL
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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