"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What to say in the train?

warrior1

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I'm 21 and live in New York City. I take the train to commute everyday. I don't know about you guys but i see the most attractive woman in the train whehter in the train or waiting for train in platform. My quesiton is what is the best opener assuming you see an attractive woman and you they noticed you as well?

I had a lot of chances when i was a bit younger and still chances like today in the morning but I didnt say anything b/c I didnt have a opener. I dont really practive much or have anything to say. I never approach someone unless i notice they noticed me and do the stuff a woman does when the are nervous..l like hair touching etc.

Back when i was maybe 18, my lines were stuff like hey you look cute. I'm XXX. Whats your name? But i never did antying because i wussed out. I definitely want to make a change since Im 21 already.

I forgot but theres a guy here that gave great advice in different situations. Someone said he asked a woman for help with picking fruits and said she was fit and looked like she knew how to pick fruits.

Is it lame to say Hey your cute, just wanted to say hi. Can anyone suggest me a few openers and things to say afterwards b/c i usually freeze when i dont know what to say and i start mumbling.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ken785

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funny thing is i was about to start the same thread too becaue i take the train almost everyday to San Francisco to go to school..seen some attractive women there too but dont have anything to approach with...all i have is "do you go to XXXX university?"...
 

warrior1

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Okay if i go to a woman and say hey I'm XXX, whats your name? Assuming they think i look good, is there anyway they wont like being approcached? I know some woman love getting approached but some hate it because usually the guy is unattractive in her eyes. Again, I only go talk to a woman if i know she notices me and does any of those signs where it shows shes interested.
 
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