"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to say in the train?

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I'm 21 and live in New York City. I take the train to commute everyday. I don't know about you guys but i see the most attractive woman in the train whehter in the train or waiting for train in platform. My quesiton is what is the best opener assuming you see an attractive woman and you they noticed you as well?

I had a lot of chances when i was a bit younger and still chances like today in the morning but I didnt say anything b/c I didnt have a opener. I dont really practive much or have anything to say. I never approach someone unless i notice they noticed me and do the stuff a woman does when the are nervous..l like hair touching etc.

Back when i was maybe 18, my lines were stuff like hey you look cute. I'm XXX. Whats your name? But i never did antying because i wussed out. I definitely want to make a change since Im 21 already.

I forgot but theres a guy here that gave great advice in different situations. Someone said he asked a woman for help with picking fruits and said she was fit and looked like she knew how to pick fruits.

Is it lame to say Hey your cute, just wanted to say hi. Can anyone suggest me a few openers and things to say afterwards b/c i usually freeze when i dont know what to say and i start mumbling.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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funny thing is i was about to start the same thread too becaue i take the train almost everyday to San Francisco to go to school..seen some attractive women there too but dont have anything to approach with...all i have is "do you go to XXXX university?"...
 
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Okay if i go to a woman and say hey I'm XXX, whats your name? Assuming they think i look good, is there anyway they wont like being approcached? I know some woman love getting approached but some hate it because usually the guy is unattractive in her eyes. Again, I only go talk to a woman if i know she notices me and does any of those signs where it shows shes interested.
 
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