"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What to say in the train?

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I'm 21 and live in New York City. I take the train to commute everyday. I don't know about you guys but i see the most attractive woman in the train whehter in the train or waiting for train in platform. My quesiton is what is the best opener assuming you see an attractive woman and you they noticed you as well?

I had a lot of chances when i was a bit younger and still chances like today in the morning but I didnt say anything b/c I didnt have a opener. I dont really practive much or have anything to say. I never approach someone unless i notice they noticed me and do the stuff a woman does when the are nervous..l like hair touching etc.

Back when i was maybe 18, my lines were stuff like hey you look cute. I'm XXX. Whats your name? But i never did antying because i wussed out. I definitely want to make a change since Im 21 already.

I forgot but theres a guy here that gave great advice in different situations. Someone said he asked a woman for help with picking fruits and said she was fit and looked like she knew how to pick fruits.

Is it lame to say Hey your cute, just wanted to say hi. Can anyone suggest me a few openers and things to say afterwards b/c i usually freeze when i dont know what to say and i start mumbling.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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funny thing is i was about to start the same thread too becaue i take the train almost everyday to San Francisco to go to school..seen some attractive women there too but dont have anything to approach with...all i have is "do you go to XXXX university?"...
 
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Okay if i go to a woman and say hey I'm XXX, whats your name? Assuming they think i look good, is there anyway they wont like being approcached? I know some woman love getting approached but some hate it because usually the guy is unattractive in her eyes. Again, I only go talk to a woman if i know she notices me and does any of those signs where it shows shes interested.
 
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