"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to say in the train?

warrior1

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I'm 21 and live in New York City. I take the train to commute everyday. I don't know about you guys but i see the most attractive woman in the train whehter in the train or waiting for train in platform. My quesiton is what is the best opener assuming you see an attractive woman and you they noticed you as well?

I had a lot of chances when i was a bit younger and still chances like today in the morning but I didnt say anything b/c I didnt have a opener. I dont really practive much or have anything to say. I never approach someone unless i notice they noticed me and do the stuff a woman does when the are nervous..l like hair touching etc.

Back when i was maybe 18, my lines were stuff like hey you look cute. I'm XXX. Whats your name? But i never did antying because i wussed out. I definitely want to make a change since Im 21 already.

I forgot but theres a guy here that gave great advice in different situations. Someone said he asked a woman for help with picking fruits and said she was fit and looked like she knew how to pick fruits.

Is it lame to say Hey your cute, just wanted to say hi. Can anyone suggest me a few openers and things to say afterwards b/c i usually freeze when i dont know what to say and i start mumbling.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ken785

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funny thing is i was about to start the same thread too becaue i take the train almost everyday to San Francisco to go to school..seen some attractive women there too but dont have anything to approach with...all i have is "do you go to XXXX university?"...
 

warrior1

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Okay if i go to a woman and say hey I'm XXX, whats your name? Assuming they think i look good, is there anyway they wont like being approcached? I know some woman love getting approached but some hate it because usually the guy is unattractive in her eyes. Again, I only go talk to a woman if i know she notices me and does any of those signs where it shows shes interested.
 
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