"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What to say if she asks if it's a booty call?
- Thread starter SoSerene
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
"Do you think I'm that easy??????!!! You're going to have to work a little harder if
you want this booty, baby."
Whack change the subject......."you like wine?"
Flip the script. She's chasing your azz...
Serenity
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NSX-R
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It seems irrelevant but i like it.
Skyline
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
El Payaso
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If you are super confident and don't give a sh*t you can even just reply with a simple "yes". That actually gets some women's panties incredibly wet that you don't give a sh*t. Just be outcome independent. When she comes over she might try to play hard to get, just smile and go do something else. She'll be begging for your attention before you know it.
old_skoolr
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Old_skoolr: Well I actually called you over to cook for me, but if you want sex Im sure we can do that after.
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"Hey, my pet wants to meet you."
"Hey, there's this new recipe we should make."
"Hey, I have this new bottle of champagne / wine / beer I got yesterday, let's try it."
She'll read between the lines.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
her : you just want sex!
me: pretty much, but if you are going to act THIS bratty someone is going to get punished. ( i'm a dom so I use it to my effect)
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
