"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What to say if she asks if it's a booty call?
- Thread starter SoSerene
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
"Do you think I'm that easy??????!!! You're going to have to work a little harder if
you want this booty, baby."
Whack change the subject......."you like wine?"
Flip the script. She's chasing your azz...
Serenity
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NSX-R
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It seems irrelevant but i like it.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
El Payaso
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If you are super confident and don't give a sh*t you can even just reply with a simple "yes". That actually gets some women's panties incredibly wet that you don't give a sh*t. Just be outcome independent. When she comes over she might try to play hard to get, just smile and go do something else. She'll be begging for your attention before you know it.
old_skoolr
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Old_skoolr: Well I actually called you over to cook for me, but if you want sex Im sure we can do that after.
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"Hey, my pet wants to meet you."
"Hey, there's this new recipe we should make."
"Hey, I have this new bottle of champagne / wine / beer I got yesterday, let's try it."
She'll read between the lines.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
her : you just want sex!
me: pretty much, but if you are going to act THIS bratty someone is going to get punished. ( i'm a dom so I use it to my effect)
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
