"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What to say if she asks if it's a booty call?

SoSerene

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I invite a chick over and she calls the idea out saying if she comes over this is a booty call, and asks if that's what I want?

What's a good counter response?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Reykhel

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I invite a chick over and she calls the idea out saying if she comes over this is a booty call, and asks if that's what I want?

What's a good counter response?
"Do you think I'm that easy??????!!! You're going to have to work a little harder if
you want this booty, baby."

Whack change the subject......."you like wine?"

Flip the script. She's chasing your azz...
 

Serenity

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Say "sure" if that's what you want, unless you're outcome dependent looking for the "right" thing to say to get what you want.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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El Payaso

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What Reykhel said. Just accuse her of using you for sex and that you feel disappointed in her or something to that effect.

If you are super confident and don't give a sh*t you can even just reply with a simple "yes". That actually gets some women's panties incredibly wet that you don't give a sh*t. Just be outcome independent. When she comes over she might try to play hard to get, just smile and go do something else. She'll be begging for your attention before you know it.
 

parkthebus

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Depends on the girl and your relationship with her. Can say yes. Can flipt the script. Can be ****y funny. Can tell her you simply fancied hanging with her. Can say no even. It's all relevant to your dynamic with the female.
 

EyeBRollin

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I'm not keen on verbalizing anything sexual over the phone. Use a different excuse to invite her over.

"Hey, my pet wants to meet you."
"Hey, there's this new recipe we should make."
"Hey, I have this new bottle of champagne / wine / beer I got yesterday, let's try it."

She'll read between the lines.
 

Packers2010

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me: you up
her : you just want sex!
me: pretty much, but if you are going to act THIS bratty someone is going to get punished. ( i'm a dom so I use it to my effect)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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