I have heard this too many times in the past few months, so i am going to post it and see if the people i know are the only one's with this problem...
My friends come up to me and ask me the following:
What must i speak/say to her JUST before i pull into her?
An example of one of these senario's was that my friend Marc was sitting on the beach with his chick and she was lying on him and they were both looking into the sea while watching the sunset. Now this is a perfect location for that kiss, but then he told me that before he wanted to kiss her he never knew what to talk about with her or what to say JUST before he pulled her.
My answer to hims was:
Me: Just speak to her about anything or continue to speak to her about what you were talking to her about, nothing has to "change"
Him: Well i dont think that i should pull her while we are talking about how irritating her kid sister is
Me: well then make sure that you are talking about something more on the "romantic" side of things such as how much you mean to eachother or taking her on a romantic holiday soon etc
Him: But like... is there not anything that i should say that 1 second before i pull her? because i keep on feeling wierd when i am just about to pull her, i get the feeling that my timing is going to be bad! is this normal?
Me: Stop thinking about all that, she isnt going to see it as anything bad if you kiss her afetr saying something or not, so stop worrying and just kiss her without thinking about all this sh!t
Him: ok... well... what if she isnt expecting it?
Me: 1st of all, who sais she HAS to expect it? actually, alot of chix like being kissed by suprise.. and 2ndly if the 2 of you are cuddling on the beach like that, she SHOULD be expecting it, so now please stop worrying so much about all the distractions, get all those doughbts out of your head, and KISS HER D@MNNIT!
Him: You know what, you're right, i'll just kiss her and i wont CARE about anything else! F*ck timing, if we are in that position then i CANT go wrong.. thanx man.
Me: No problem.. now go do your thing
Thats just with one of my friends.... I'm just wondering if any of you have had this kind of problem, or anything similar. so.. have you?
Laterz...
My friends come up to me and ask me the following:
What must i speak/say to her JUST before i pull into her?
An example of one of these senario's was that my friend Marc was sitting on the beach with his chick and she was lying on him and they were both looking into the sea while watching the sunset. Now this is a perfect location for that kiss, but then he told me that before he wanted to kiss her he never knew what to talk about with her or what to say JUST before he pulled her.
My answer to hims was:
Me: Just speak to her about anything or continue to speak to her about what you were talking to her about, nothing has to "change"
Him: Well i dont think that i should pull her while we are talking about how irritating her kid sister is
Me: well then make sure that you are talking about something more on the "romantic" side of things such as how much you mean to eachother or taking her on a romantic holiday soon etc
Him: But like... is there not anything that i should say that 1 second before i pull her? because i keep on feeling wierd when i am just about to pull her, i get the feeling that my timing is going to be bad! is this normal?
Me: Stop thinking about all that, she isnt going to see it as anything bad if you kiss her afetr saying something or not, so stop worrying and just kiss her without thinking about all this sh!t
Him: ok... well... what if she isnt expecting it?
Me: 1st of all, who sais she HAS to expect it? actually, alot of chix like being kissed by suprise.. and 2ndly if the 2 of you are cuddling on the beach like that, she SHOULD be expecting it, so now please stop worrying so much about all the distractions, get all those doughbts out of your head, and KISS HER D@MNNIT!
Him: You know what, you're right, i'll just kiss her and i wont CARE about anything else! F*ck timing, if we are in that position then i CANT go wrong.. thanx man.
Me: No problem.. now go do your thing
Thats just with one of my friends.... I'm just wondering if any of you have had this kind of problem, or anything similar. so.. have you?
Laterz...
