"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to have in your own place?

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What are some things to have at your pad that women like? gets them intrigued?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by rgeereda2nd
What are some things to have at your pad that women like? gets them intrigued?
completely depends on age and personality.

but of course, like anything, keep it clean and well presented.

from watch MTVs room raiders i learnt a few things.

chicks seem to dig textbooks. - helps if your studying eh?

also i've noticed if i leave my calculus text book in my car chicks always open it up and are like "wow you must be so smart, what do you do?"

i live at home but i've been redoing my bedroom..

painted, got rid of the tacky old single bed, and upgraded to a full bedroom suite, queen bed, with bed head and tail. 2 bed side tables and a chest of draws. looks good. but my walls are bare.
i'll get a cork board up, tacky but useful. get a mirror up, appearance is important. i'm going to get a few framed pictures up i think. got a great one from a couple years ago with all my friends in it, so i get it blown up and framed etc.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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