rgeereda2nd
Don Juan
What are some things to have at your pad that women like? gets them intrigued?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What to have in your own place?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
It has to look neat, mature, and lived in. Get some plants, fluffy towels, and some thrift store paintings. Also, get a decent bed and couch, and tear down any posters you have on the wall.
completely depends on age and personality.
but of course, like anything, keep it clean and well presented.
from watch MTVs room raiders i learnt a few things.
chicks seem to dig textbooks. - helps if your studying eh?
also i've noticed if i leave my calculus text book in my car chicks always open it up and are like "wow you must be so smart, what do you do?"
i live at home but i've been redoing my bedroom..
painted, got rid of the tacky old single bed, and upgraded to a full bedroom suite, queen bed, with bed head and tail. 2 bed side tables and a chest of draws. looks good. but my walls are bare.
i'll get a cork board up, tacky but useful. get a mirror up, appearance is important. i'm going to get a few framed pictures up i think. got a great one from a couple years ago with all my friends in it, so i get it blown up and framed etc.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
ME! duh.... 
diablo
Master Don Juan
Do a search or read the bible and it's appendices; they both answer this question in great detail.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15683
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001254.html
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=15683
http://www.sosuave.com/ubb/Forum6/HTML/001254.html
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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