"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Okay, I need some advice as to what you (anyone) thinks is the best course of action for me.

I'm 235lbs, 5'11", I have insane upper body strength, great arm muscles, great leg muscles, but I have a chubby gut and flabby ass. What would be the best routine to equalize out my body? Basically I just want to look decently in shape, nothing extravagant.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Could you direct me to any thread that talks about the various worksouts / excersizes that people. Specific ones, like "Do ___ to work out ___ part of your body", etc.
 

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You lose flab by cutting, you cannot spot reduce. See the cutting guide at the top off the page.
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
You lose flab by cutting, you cannot spot reduce. See the cutting guide at the top off the page.
I'm aware, but that still doesn't answer my previous question about various excersizes... I'm trying to create a routine, but I don't know jack. Since I'm on a forum for help, can someone, ya know, help out?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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We don't know how you look like. Basically you prioritize the stuff you are lagging in and do it in the beginning of the workourt. For exercises see the bulking up guide. Keep around 15-20 sets per workout.

a sample workout, standard layout. Something you can start off with and tweak around with.

Mon: legs + abs
Tue
Wed: chest + triceps + delts
thurs:
Fri: Back + biceps + abs
Sat
Sun

Leg:

4 sets Squats
4 sets Stiff leg deadlifts
4 sets standing calves raises
4 sets ab exercise

Chest:

3 sets incline bench press with db or bb
3 sets flat bench press with db or bb
3 set Military presses
3 set lateral raises
3 sets triceps dips <-- if you can manage do close grip bench with reverse grip instead
3 sets skullcrushers


Back:

3-4 sets of Deadlifts
3 set off barbell rows or T-bar rows
2 sets off Pull'downs
2-3 sets of shrugs
4 sets barbell or db curls
4 sets ab exercise


But if you want to loose the flab, then you must cut.
 
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