"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Okay, I need some advice as to what you (anyone) thinks is the best course of action for me.

I'm 235lbs, 5'11", I have insane upper body strength, great arm muscles, great leg muscles, but I have a chubby gut and flabby ass. What would be the best routine to equalize out my body? Basically I just want to look decently in shape, nothing extravagant.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Could you direct me to any thread that talks about the various worksouts / excersizes that people. Specific ones, like "Do ___ to work out ___ part of your body", etc.
 

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You lose flab by cutting, you cannot spot reduce. See the cutting guide at the top off the page.
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
You lose flab by cutting, you cannot spot reduce. See the cutting guide at the top off the page.
I'm aware, but that still doesn't answer my previous question about various excersizes... I'm trying to create a routine, but I don't know jack. Since I'm on a forum for help, can someone, ya know, help out?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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We don't know how you look like. Basically you prioritize the stuff you are lagging in and do it in the beginning of the workourt. For exercises see the bulking up guide. Keep around 15-20 sets per workout.

a sample workout, standard layout. Something you can start off with and tweak around with.

Mon: legs + abs
Tue
Wed: chest + triceps + delts
thurs:
Fri: Back + biceps + abs
Sat
Sun

Leg:

4 sets Squats
4 sets Stiff leg deadlifts
4 sets standing calves raises
4 sets ab exercise

Chest:

3 sets incline bench press with db or bb
3 sets flat bench press with db or bb
3 set Military presses
3 set lateral raises
3 sets triceps dips <-- if you can manage do close grip bench with reverse grip instead
3 sets skullcrushers


Back:

3-4 sets of Deadlifts
3 set off barbell rows or T-bar rows
2 sets off Pull'downs
2-3 sets of shrugs
4 sets barbell or db curls
4 sets ab exercise


But if you want to loose the flab, then you must cut.
 
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