"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Okay, I need some advice as to what you (anyone) thinks is the best course of action for me.

I'm 235lbs, 5'11", I have insane upper body strength, great arm muscles, great leg muscles, but I have a chubby gut and flabby ass. What would be the best routine to equalize out my body? Basically I just want to look decently in shape, nothing extravagant.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Could you direct me to any thread that talks about the various worksouts / excersizes that people. Specific ones, like "Do ___ to work out ___ part of your body", etc.
 

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You lose flab by cutting, you cannot spot reduce. See the cutting guide at the top off the page.
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
You lose flab by cutting, you cannot spot reduce. See the cutting guide at the top off the page.
I'm aware, but that still doesn't answer my previous question about various excersizes... I'm trying to create a routine, but I don't know jack. Since I'm on a forum for help, can someone, ya know, help out?
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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We don't know how you look like. Basically you prioritize the stuff you are lagging in and do it in the beginning of the workourt. For exercises see the bulking up guide. Keep around 15-20 sets per workout.

a sample workout, standard layout. Something you can start off with and tweak around with.

Mon: legs + abs
Tue
Wed: chest + triceps + delts
thurs:
Fri: Back + biceps + abs
Sat
Sun

Leg:

4 sets Squats
4 sets Stiff leg deadlifts
4 sets standing calves raises
4 sets ab exercise

Chest:

3 sets incline bench press with db or bb
3 sets flat bench press with db or bb
3 set Military presses
3 set lateral raises
3 sets triceps dips <-- if you can manage do close grip bench with reverse grip instead
3 sets skullcrushers


Back:

3-4 sets of Deadlifts
3 set off barbell rows or T-bar rows
2 sets off Pull'downs
2-3 sets of shrugs
4 sets barbell or db curls
4 sets ab exercise


But if you want to loose the flab, then you must cut.
 
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