"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A stunning 10 said this line to me and i'm gettin the message that she wants me to pursue her. She had very high initial interest in me until one night where a bad movie messes it all up.

She show signs of interest from time to time, but already stood me up on one date (I kept my cool). I don't want to play phone tag with her any longer, but im not desperate because i have other girls that I'm dating.


Last time i asked her to go shopping, she responded: "Next time." Then I said: "We'll see." and that was the last time i talked to her.

How can i turn that around and have her pursue me?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by perfectman
A stunning 10 said this line to me and i'm gettin the message that she wants me to pursue her.
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from what you just posted, how can you get the message that SHE wants to pursue YOU??

I believe your question asks:
How can i turn that around and have her pursue me?
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these 2 statements contradict each other!

but in response to your QUESTION...
next her, just forget about it. if you got other girls on the line, date them, and forget this girl who is playin ya
unless you can play her at her own game
 
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perfect man: GAMES ARE FOR LIL KIDS

indication number 1: she stood you up... isnt that a good enough clue for you to understand she's not really interested in you, but if your willing to give the attention ***** some attention so be it...

If a female really wants to be with you she would make time and would not stand you up :cool:
 
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play her right back. do the exact same things she is doing to you.

maybe treat her like crap, not too much of a jerk, but try it.

dont talk to her for a few weeks, and then call her and see what's she's up to.

if you say this- it wont make you come off as desperate: "hey, i'm going out tonight, would you care to join me. we havent done n e thign in awhile"

if she says no, then just say- "that's fine, offer is on the table n e time you want it"

then forget abuot her
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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uhh, shopping?
 
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