"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A stunning 10 said this line to me and i'm gettin the message that she wants me to pursue her. She had very high initial interest in me until one night where a bad movie messes it all up.

She show signs of interest from time to time, but already stood me up on one date (I kept my cool). I don't want to play phone tag with her any longer, but im not desperate because i have other girls that I'm dating.


Last time i asked her to go shopping, she responded: "Next time." Then I said: "We'll see." and that was the last time i talked to her.

How can i turn that around and have her pursue me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by perfectman
A stunning 10 said this line to me and i'm gettin the message that she wants me to pursue her.
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from what you just posted, how can you get the message that SHE wants to pursue YOU??

I believe your question asks:
How can i turn that around and have her pursue me?
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these 2 statements contradict each other!

but in response to your QUESTION...
next her, just forget about it. if you got other girls on the line, date them, and forget this girl who is playin ya
unless you can play her at her own game
 
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perfect man: GAMES ARE FOR LIL KIDS

indication number 1: she stood you up... isnt that a good enough clue for you to understand she's not really interested in you, but if your willing to give the attention ***** some attention so be it...

If a female really wants to be with you she would make time and would not stand you up :cool:
 
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play her right back. do the exact same things she is doing to you.

maybe treat her like crap, not too much of a jerk, but try it.

dont talk to her for a few weeks, and then call her and see what's she's up to.

if you say this- it wont make you come off as desperate: "hey, i'm going out tonight, would you care to join me. we havent done n e thign in awhile"

if she says no, then just say- "that's fine, offer is on the table n e time you want it"

then forget abuot her
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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uhh, shopping?
 
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