"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A stunning 10 said this line to me and i'm gettin the message that she wants me to pursue her. She had very high initial interest in me until one night where a bad movie messes it all up.

She show signs of interest from time to time, but already stood me up on one date (I kept my cool). I don't want to play phone tag with her any longer, but im not desperate because i have other girls that I'm dating.


Last time i asked her to go shopping, she responded: "Next time." Then I said: "We'll see." and that was the last time i talked to her.

How can i turn that around and have her pursue me?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by perfectman
A stunning 10 said this line to me and i'm gettin the message that she wants me to pursue her.
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from what you just posted, how can you get the message that SHE wants to pursue YOU??

I believe your question asks:
How can i turn that around and have her pursue me?
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these 2 statements contradict each other!

but in response to your QUESTION...
next her, just forget about it. if you got other girls on the line, date them, and forget this girl who is playin ya
unless you can play her at her own game
 
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perfect man: GAMES ARE FOR LIL KIDS

indication number 1: she stood you up... isnt that a good enough clue for you to understand she's not really interested in you, but if your willing to give the attention ***** some attention so be it...

If a female really wants to be with you she would make time and would not stand you up :cool:
 
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play her right back. do the exact same things she is doing to you.

maybe treat her like crap, not too much of a jerk, but try it.

dont talk to her for a few weeks, and then call her and see what's she's up to.

if you say this- it wont make you come off as desperate: "hey, i'm going out tonight, would you care to join me. we havent done n e thign in awhile"

if she says no, then just say- "that's fine, offer is on the table n e time you want it"

then forget abuot her
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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uhh, shopping?
 
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