"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RedKnight04

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Wow haven't seen this board in a little bit, hello I'm redknight, king of all kings!! Even BURGER KING!!

Anyways, I'm in a situation. A friend of mine (a chick) gave me a number of a girl that she thought I should meet awhile ago.

Now I use ball busting and flirting constantly. Here's one I like:

Me: "Interesting..." (looking at the sky with my hand on chin pretending to think hard)

Her: "What?"

Me: "You actually had a decent score on your test."

Her: "Uh.. What test?"

Me: "The test every potential girl has to pass to even get a next date with me. And it looks like you barely made it. Oh wait I forgot you didn't buy me flowers. Goodbye." (Then turn my back and walk a little bit away, This **** could go on and on)

BUT I am not here to give communication tips. I actually need advice. So I ended up meeting her for coffee and a walk around an outdoor mall. See, I flirted with her and roll played with her, you know the whole shebag, but she clearly had no personality to catch ANY OF IT. She laughed but didn't keep going. BORING.

Most of the girls I've dated catch right back and joke around and I find that interesting now that I know what I'm doing. If you know the "system" then you know what I'm talking about.

Well that cuts it short so...

Should I throw in the towel? Or should I see if she opens up more?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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RedKnight04

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Wow, lets not reply so fast guys we don't want to burn our keyboards with such speed.. :eek:
 

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Dude you gotta remember some chicks are just dumbasses with no wit. These are the ones you should forego all the quick thinking antics, just talk to them and KINO... did you kino at all? Doesnt look like you did from what you wrote...
 

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If you have no interest....go hang out with her again and see what you can get out of it.

But if you have no interest what is the point? Forget her.
 

RedKnight04

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Absolutely bro, maybe Kino and just talking regular conversation is best. I did use Kino, but I mainly use it to point valid points and when I bring up happy times/memories for association purposes. I really like to use it when I first talk to the girl with a hug then tell them "ok, no more touching." hahha its the best.

I agree very much with what you said. Some girls just aren't witty.

I'm actually just going to next her.

I feel bad because she's nice but just flat and boring.

Anyways, thanks for the advice but I should of done this to begin with.. just had to know if anyone has seen girls like this.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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