"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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so this girl I used to hook up w/ haven't talked to her in about 7 months, since I started a new job and went back to school. Well, I am home over break and wanted to give her a call, unfortunately her # changed, so I looked her up on the college directory, and was able to get her new#. I feel weird having to look up her number on a college directory and give her a call.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this her cell number that changed? If it is her house/land line that changed, just call her up, and make no mention of it. Either way, just call her up, without that apologetic feeling. Chances are she won't be up for hooking up, since it has been a long time, and it seems you and/or her have made no effort is getting in touch. Worth a try. Don't worry about how you got the number, that's the least of your troubles now.
 
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Most land lines will give the new number a few months after they've been changed.
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Most land lines will give the new number a few months after they've been changed.
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this was her cellphone, it did not list her new number, I am not sure why she changed her phone number. I am a little nervous to call her.
 
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