"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so this girl I used to hook up w/ haven't talked to her in about 7 months, since I started a new job and went back to school. Well, I am home over break and wanted to give her a call, unfortunately her # changed, so I looked her up on the college directory, and was able to get her new#. I feel weird having to look up her number on a college directory and give her a call.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this her cell number that changed? If it is her house/land line that changed, just call her up, and make no mention of it. Either way, just call her up, without that apologetic feeling. Chances are she won't be up for hooking up, since it has been a long time, and it seems you and/or her have made no effort is getting in touch. Worth a try. Don't worry about how you got the number, that's the least of your troubles now.
 
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Most land lines will give the new number a few months after they've been changed.
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Most land lines will give the new number a few months after they've been changed.
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this was her cellphone, it did not list her new number, I am not sure why she changed her phone number. I am a little nervous to call her.
 
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