"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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so this girl I used to hook up w/ haven't talked to her in about 7 months, since I started a new job and went back to school. Well, I am home over break and wanted to give her a call, unfortunately her # changed, so I looked her up on the college directory, and was able to get her new#. I feel weird having to look up her number on a college directory and give her a call.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is this her cell number that changed? If it is her house/land line that changed, just call her up, and make no mention of it. Either way, just call her up, without that apologetic feeling. Chances are she won't be up for hooking up, since it has been a long time, and it seems you and/or her have made no effort is getting in touch. Worth a try. Don't worry about how you got the number, that's the least of your troubles now.
 
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Most land lines will give the new number a few months after they've been changed.
 
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Gangster Of Love said:
Most land lines will give the new number a few months after they've been changed.
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this was her cellphone, it did not list her new number, I am not sure why she changed her phone number. I am a little nervous to call her.
 
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