"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys has anyone heard about this book that has become very popular, its called "He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys": By: Greg Behrendt,Liz Tuccillo. It was one of those damned books that Oprah pushed onto the world with her show. Its the writers from "Sex and the City".

http://www.usatoday.com/life/books/excerpts/2004-09-08-hes-just_x.htm

Anyways, this girl that I have been talking to is reading this book. She is now comparing me to every guy in the book and telling me my faults and why she thinks I'm not into her. What is he trying to pull here? It kinda upsets me that I'm being compared to some AFC in book that is probably made up. Is she just trying to justify her feeling of her not being into me that much?

What do you guys think? What should I say or do? I have been trying to come back with some ****y funny stuff, but had no luck.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It's amusing and to be honest I'd rather women thought men weren't really in to them when in reality moves aren't made on most chicks because the guy is wary of asking a woman out because he thinks she's a stupid c*nt and will either blow him out, flake out on him or decide he isn't worth it for some stupid idiotic reason.

I think it's good this guy is convincing women it's because men aren't really that in to them if they don't make a move or ask them out - it makes us look a hell of a lot better and crushes the ego's of women who read that book.

Great!

The Muscly Jerk
 

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BADA-BING said:
Is she just trying to justify her feeling of her not being into me that much?
My guess is that she's trying to manipulate you into assuring her that you ARE into her, and into making more of an effort for her to prove it. Regardless, what she's doing is disrespectful to you; tell her to knock it off, and bail if she won't.
 

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Once she has you doing all that AFC crap she'll lose interest in you...
Don't know why God just had to make women assbackwards...
 

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BADA-BING said:
Hey guys has anyone heard about this book that has become very popular, its called "He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys": By: Greg Behrendt,Liz Tuccillo. It was one of those damned books that Oprah pushed onto the world with her show. Its the writers from "Sex and the City".

http://www.usatoday.com/life/books/excerpts/2004-09-08-hes-just_x.htm

Anyways, this girl that I have been talking to is reading this book. She is now comparing me to every guy in the book and telling me my faults and why she thinks I'm not into her. What is he trying to pull here? It kinda upsets me that I'm being compared to some AFC in book that is probably made up. Is she just trying to justify her feeling of her not being into me that much?

What do you guys think? What should I say or do? I have been trying to come back with some ****y funny stuff, but had no luck.
tell her that if she needs some book to understand you that your relationship really isn't heading in the direction you thought it would and that you think its time for some space.

when a woman starts ragging on you SHUT THAT SH*T DOWN.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'd spend more time with other women. Maybe then she'll realize you really AREN'T that into her and start trying to get you back.
 

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joekerr31 said:
tell her that if she needs some book to understand you that your relationship really isn't heading in the direction you thought it would and that you think its time for some space.

when a woman starts ragging on you SHUT THAT SH1T DOWN.
A1 advice. Plain, simple, effective.
 

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Man, when a girl is hot and I wanna keep her, I play the inverse turn. They needs to be trained, just like the family dog. So, here's what I do; I agree and apologize for treatin her so bad and agree to follow the book. Then, I stop doin other stuff I do for her cause I want to follow the book. I didn't read it so I don't know - you decide based on what she says about the book. So, I'd find something that I do reeeeeaaaalll good that she likes and I'd stop. Then I' point out, its not in the book. Man, I'd wear her out with that book. Like, she'd say why didn't you lick my xxxxx - I'd say its not in the book. I'd do it until she said, forget the book. :rock:

Man, sometimes you gots to use your brain instead of fear and abandonment. :yes: You won't get two other dogs cause your dog won't walk on a leash. :nono: You'd train that sucka. So, TRAIN YOUR WOMAN. :up:

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