"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What to do??

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Hey guys has anyone heard about this book that has become very popular, its called "He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys": By: Greg Behrendt,Liz Tuccillo. It was one of those damned books that Oprah pushed onto the world with her show. Its the writers from "Sex and the City".

http://www.usatoday.com/life/books/excerpts/2004-09-08-hes-just_x.htm

Anyways, this girl that I have been talking to is reading this book. She is now comparing me to every guy in the book and telling me my faults and why she thinks I'm not into her. What is he trying to pull here? It kinda upsets me that I'm being compared to some AFC in book that is probably made up. Is she just trying to justify her feeling of her not being into me that much?

What do you guys think? What should I say or do? I have been trying to come back with some ****y funny stuff, but had no luck.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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It's amusing and to be honest I'd rather women thought men weren't really in to them when in reality moves aren't made on most chicks because the guy is wary of asking a woman out because he thinks she's a stupid c*nt and will either blow him out, flake out on him or decide he isn't worth it for some stupid idiotic reason.

I think it's good this guy is convincing women it's because men aren't really that in to them if they don't make a move or ask them out - it makes us look a hell of a lot better and crushes the ego's of women who read that book.

Great!

The Muscly Jerk
 

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BADA-BING said:
Is she just trying to justify her feeling of her not being into me that much?
My guess is that she's trying to manipulate you into assuring her that you ARE into her, and into making more of an effort for her to prove it. Regardless, what she's doing is disrespectful to you; tell her to knock it off, and bail if she won't.
 

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Once she has you doing all that AFC crap she'll lose interest in you...
Don't know why God just had to make women assbackwards...
 

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BADA-BING said:
Hey guys has anyone heard about this book that has become very popular, its called "He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys": By: Greg Behrendt,Liz Tuccillo. It was one of those damned books that Oprah pushed onto the world with her show. Its the writers from "Sex and the City".

http://www.usatoday.com/life/books/excerpts/2004-09-08-hes-just_x.htm

Anyways, this girl that I have been talking to is reading this book. She is now comparing me to every guy in the book and telling me my faults and why she thinks I'm not into her. What is he trying to pull here? It kinda upsets me that I'm being compared to some AFC in book that is probably made up. Is she just trying to justify her feeling of her not being into me that much?

What do you guys think? What should I say or do? I have been trying to come back with some ****y funny stuff, but had no luck.
tell her that if she needs some book to understand you that your relationship really isn't heading in the direction you thought it would and that you think its time for some space.

when a woman starts ragging on you SHUT THAT SH*T DOWN.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'd spend more time with other women. Maybe then she'll realize you really AREN'T that into her and start trying to get you back.
 

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joekerr31 said:
tell her that if she needs some book to understand you that your relationship really isn't heading in the direction you thought it would and that you think its time for some space.

when a woman starts ragging on you SHUT THAT SH1T DOWN.
A1 advice. Plain, simple, effective.
 

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Man, when a girl is hot and I wanna keep her, I play the inverse turn. They needs to be trained, just like the family dog. So, here's what I do; I agree and apologize for treatin her so bad and agree to follow the book. Then, I stop doin other stuff I do for her cause I want to follow the book. I didn't read it so I don't know - you decide based on what she says about the book. So, I'd find something that I do reeeeeaaaalll good that she likes and I'd stop. Then I' point out, its not in the book. Man, I'd wear her out with that book. Like, she'd say why didn't you lick my xxxxx - I'd say its not in the book. I'd do it until she said, forget the book. :rock:

Man, sometimes you gots to use your brain instead of fear and abandonment. :yes: You won't get two other dogs cause your dog won't walk on a leash. :nono: You'd train that sucka. So, TRAIN YOUR WOMAN. :up:

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