Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What to do With Someone Under 21?

ENIGMA16

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Hooked up with this girl over the weekend and got her number, want to have her back over but I don't want to just invite her over to my place. Problem is that she's 19. I have no idea what to do with this girl, I wanna just take her some place where I normally go then I realized that the only places I go out for fun are usually 21+!

I don't want to go to some place like the theater, or a show, for obvious reasons. Only thing I can think of is taking her along with me when I go grocery shopping or Christmas shopping or something. Other than that I'm clueless.

Any ideas guys?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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f283000

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JLay87 said:
Hooked up with this girl over the weekend and got her number, want to have her back over but I don't want to just invite her over to my place.
Why not? Do you think walking around with a 19 year old is actually a smart thing to do? They are little girls mentally who have air between their ears and the only good thing they are good for is f****.
 

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Alle Gory said:
Actually she might have told me she had one when I was drunk, I'll have to find out.

f283000 said:
Why not? Do you think walking around with a 19 year old is actually a smart thing to do? They are little girls mentally who have air between their ears and the only good thing they are good for is f****.
I don't see a problem with it, but I enjoy spending time with the women I'm fvcking, unless it's a ONS.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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BigJimbo

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Where I am at practically all the girls in the clubs, bars, and casinos are under 21. In America you are supposed to date mothers and married women. Really. That is what American wants you to go out with. That is why it is the ONLY COUNTRY on earth where a 19 year old can't go out. Even the Canadians (yes, the Canucks) allow them to go drinking and gambling at that age. Hell, the Frenchies in Canada (Quebec) let you get booze if you can see over the counter!! But America has freedom and lots of soldiers that you need to thank.
 

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Chucky Cheeses has specials on slices of pizza on Thursday nights.
 

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Falcon25 said:
Chucky Cheeses has specials on slices of pizza on Thursday nights.
I always keep a Chucky Cheese reference on the back burner when I ask a girl out for drinks and she's not 21 yet.
 

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Are you planning to actually date this girl?

I'm not saying it can't work. I'm just saying it probably won't for more than a few bones (that is, IF you try to actually date her).

Be fun, and don't make plans based on her. Make plans, and invite her. There's a subtle difference. You have a major advantage in that you have access to things she does not. Don't give it up by going out of your way to find things that you can do together.

This way, if she turns out to be someone who is actually worth seeing more than 5 times (and be honest with yourself - I wouldn't hold my breath), you will not have been a complete d*ck, or a sniveling p*ssy - you will instead have been someone worth dating.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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