"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What to do With Someone Under 21?

ENIGMA16

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Hooked up with this girl over the weekend and got her number, want to have her back over but I don't want to just invite her over to my place. Problem is that she's 19. I have no idea what to do with this girl, I wanna just take her some place where I normally go then I realized that the only places I go out for fun are usually 21+!

I don't want to go to some place like the theater, or a show, for obvious reasons. Only thing I can think of is taking her along with me when I go grocery shopping or Christmas shopping or something. Other than that I'm clueless.

Any ideas guys?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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f283000

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JLay87 said:
Hooked up with this girl over the weekend and got her number, want to have her back over but I don't want to just invite her over to my place.
Why not? Do you think walking around with a 19 year old is actually a smart thing to do? They are little girls mentally who have air between their ears and the only good thing they are good for is f****.
 

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Alle Gory said:
Actually she might have told me she had one when I was drunk, I'll have to find out.

f283000 said:
Why not? Do you think walking around with a 19 year old is actually a smart thing to do? They are little girls mentally who have air between their ears and the only good thing they are good for is f****.
I don't see a problem with it, but I enjoy spending time with the women I'm fvcking, unless it's a ONS.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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BigJimbo

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Where I am at practically all the girls in the clubs, bars, and casinos are under 21. In America you are supposed to date mothers and married women. Really. That is what American wants you to go out with. That is why it is the ONLY COUNTRY on earth where a 19 year old can't go out. Even the Canadians (yes, the Canucks) allow them to go drinking and gambling at that age. Hell, the Frenchies in Canada (Quebec) let you get booze if you can see over the counter!! But America has freedom and lots of soldiers that you need to thank.
 

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Chucky Cheeses has specials on slices of pizza on Thursday nights.
 

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Falcon25 said:
Chucky Cheeses has specials on slices of pizza on Thursday nights.
I always keep a Chucky Cheese reference on the back burner when I ask a girl out for drinks and she's not 21 yet.
 

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Are you planning to actually date this girl?

I'm not saying it can't work. I'm just saying it probably won't for more than a few bones (that is, IF you try to actually date her).

Be fun, and don't make plans based on her. Make plans, and invite her. There's a subtle difference. You have a major advantage in that you have access to things she does not. Don't give it up by going out of your way to find things that you can do together.

This way, if she turns out to be someone who is actually worth seeing more than 5 times (and be honest with yourself - I wouldn't hold my breath), you will not have been a complete d*ck, or a sniveling p*ssy - you will instead have been someone worth dating.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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