"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to do With Someone Under 21?

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ENIGMA16

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Hooked up with this girl over the weekend and got her number, want to have her back over but I don't want to just invite her over to my place. Problem is that she's 19. I have no idea what to do with this girl, I wanna just take her some place where I normally go then I realized that the only places I go out for fun are usually 21+!

I don't want to go to some place like the theater, or a show, for obvious reasons. Only thing I can think of is taking her along with me when I go grocery shopping or Christmas shopping or something. Other than that I'm clueless.

Any ideas guys?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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JLay87 said:
Hooked up with this girl over the weekend and got her number, want to have her back over but I don't want to just invite her over to my place.
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Why not? Do you think walking around with a 19 year old is actually a smart thing to do? They are little girls mentally who have air between their ears and the only good thing they are good for is f****.
 
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Alle Gory said:
Fake ID.
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Actually she might have told me she had one when I was drunk, I'll have to find out.

f283000 said:
Why not? Do you think walking around with a 19 year old is actually a smart thing to do? They are little girls mentally who have air between their ears and the only good thing they are good for is f****.
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I don't see a problem with it, but I enjoy spending time with the women I'm fvcking, unless it's a ONS.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Where I am at practically all the girls in the clubs, bars, and casinos are under 21. In America you are supposed to date mothers and married women. Really. That is what American wants you to go out with. That is why it is the ONLY COUNTRY on earth where a 19 year old can't go out. Even the Canadians (yes, the Canucks) allow them to go drinking and gambling at that age. Hell, the Frenchies in Canada (Quebec) let you get booze if you can see over the counter!! But America has freedom and lots of soldiers that you need to thank.
 
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Chucky Cheeses has specials on slices of pizza on Thursday nights.
 
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Falcon25 said:
Chucky Cheeses has specials on slices of pizza on Thursday nights.
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I always keep a Chucky Cheese reference on the back burner when I ask a girl out for drinks and she's not 21 yet.
 
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Are you planning to actually date this girl?

I'm not saying it can't work. I'm just saying it probably won't for more than a few bones (that is, IF you try to actually date her).

Be fun, and don't make plans based on her. Make plans, and invite her. There's a subtle difference. You have a major advantage in that you have access to things she does not. Don't give it up by going out of your way to find things that you can do together.

This way, if she turns out to be someone who is actually worth seeing more than 5 times (and be honest with yourself - I wouldn't hold my breath), you will not have been a complete d*ck, or a sniveling p*ssy - you will instead have been someone worth dating.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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