"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What to do with numbers once you get them?

Exelerate

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What is the quickest way to sex after getting numbers?
I keep getting flakes. The interaction goes well, there are times when the girl closes me or asks for my name again afterwards, but it doesn't go anywhere.
Maybe I am screwing up because I go for a hug after getting her number?
Should I be suggesting coffee or just come over to my place? (With Tinder being mainstream now doesn't it affect cold approaching??)
What is the correct way for text game??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Chi Town

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How long are these interactions before you go for the number?

Numbers in general are flaky, just how it is, the more numbers you get, the higher your success rate, it's a numbers game.
 

Exelerate

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How long are these interactions before you go for the number?

Numbers in general are flaky, just how it is, the more numbers you get, the higher your success rate, it's a numbers game.
They're usually around 5 minutes or like 5-10 lines each person.
Is longer better?
 

marmel75

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There is no set answer to this. Keep doing it and eventually you will figure out better methods and what ends up working. You are getting the numbers so that's good, most likely its just some minor tweaks you need to make which will up your success rate.
 

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This is what you asked:

Get Number ===> Sex.

Don't get ahead of yourself. This should be your mindset.

Women you like ==> Get Number ==> Make a date ==> Is she worth your time ==> She likes you make a move ==> Seduce ==> Sex
20 ===========> 15 ========> 8 =========> 4 ================> 3 ==================> 2 ======> 1

Now if you want advice on to improve your chances at each step that is something many here can help you with. But if you are trying to make something happen with ANY chick you meet, well IMO you are spending too much time pushing a string. Everything start with the women, and if she thinks you are fvckable or not. If at any step a chick disqualifies herself with her low interest or attitude, then you forget about her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Mazer

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How long are these interactions before you go for the number?

Numbers in general are flaky, just how it is, the more numbers you get, the higher your success rate, it's a numbers game.
This
 
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