"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What to do with numbers once you get them?

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What is the quickest way to sex after getting numbers?
I keep getting flakes. The interaction goes well, there are times when the girl closes me or asks for my name again afterwards, but it doesn't go anywhere.
Maybe I am screwing up because I go for a hug after getting her number?
Should I be suggesting coffee or just come over to my place? (With Tinder being mainstream now doesn't it affect cold approaching??)
What is the correct way for text game??
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How long are these interactions before you go for the number?

Numbers in general are flaky, just how it is, the more numbers you get, the higher your success rate, it's a numbers game.
 
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Chi Town said:
How long are these interactions before you go for the number?

Numbers in general are flaky, just how it is, the more numbers you get, the higher your success rate, it's a numbers game.
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They're usually around 5 minutes or like 5-10 lines each person.
Is longer better?
 
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There is no set answer to this. Keep doing it and eventually you will figure out better methods and what ends up working. You are getting the numbers so that's good, most likely its just some minor tweaks you need to make which will up your success rate.
 
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This is what you asked:

Get Number ===> Sex.

Don't get ahead of yourself. This should be your mindset.

Women you like ==> Get Number ==> Make a date ==> Is she worth your time ==> She likes you make a move ==> Seduce ==> Sex
20 ===========> 15 ========> 8 =========> 4 ================> 3 ==================> 2 ======> 1

Now if you want advice on to improve your chances at each step that is something many here can help you with. But if you are trying to make something happen with ANY chick you meet, well IMO you are spending too much time pushing a string. Everything start with the women, and if she thinks you are fvckable or not. If at any step a chick disqualifies herself with her low interest or attitude, then you forget about her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Chi Town said:
How long are these interactions before you go for the number?

Numbers in general are flaky, just how it is, the more numbers you get, the higher your success rate, it's a numbers game.
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This
 
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