"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What to do with numbers once you get them?

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What is the quickest way to sex after getting numbers?
I keep getting flakes. The interaction goes well, there are times when the girl closes me or asks for my name again afterwards, but it doesn't go anywhere.
Maybe I am screwing up because I go for a hug after getting her number?
Should I be suggesting coffee or just come over to my place? (With Tinder being mainstream now doesn't it affect cold approaching??)
What is the correct way for text game??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How long are these interactions before you go for the number?

Numbers in general are flaky, just how it is, the more numbers you get, the higher your success rate, it's a numbers game.
 
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Chi Town said:
How long are these interactions before you go for the number?

Numbers in general are flaky, just how it is, the more numbers you get, the higher your success rate, it's a numbers game.
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They're usually around 5 minutes or like 5-10 lines each person.
Is longer better?
 
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There is no set answer to this. Keep doing it and eventually you will figure out better methods and what ends up working. You are getting the numbers so that's good, most likely its just some minor tweaks you need to make which will up your success rate.
 
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This is what you asked:

Get Number ===> Sex.

Don't get ahead of yourself. This should be your mindset.

Women you like ==> Get Number ==> Make a date ==> Is she worth your time ==> She likes you make a move ==> Seduce ==> Sex
20 ===========> 15 ========> 8 =========> 4 ================> 3 ==================> 2 ======> 1

Now if you want advice on to improve your chances at each step that is something many here can help you with. But if you are trying to make something happen with ANY chick you meet, well IMO you are spending too much time pushing a string. Everything start with the women, and if she thinks you are fvckable or not. If at any step a chick disqualifies herself with her low interest or attitude, then you forget about her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chi Town said:
How long are these interactions before you go for the number?

Numbers in general are flaky, just how it is, the more numbers you get, the higher your success rate, it's a numbers game.
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This
 
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