"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what to do wid this chick

fillme

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Well, here's this chinese chick in my graduate school I really dunno what to do with.

I met her about an year ago in the orientation week and knew her ever since. but only recently became interested in her.

I *think* she's a shy type as I never seen her talking to any1 in da class except for 2-3 other chinese girls. Anyhows, lately I have started flirting with her...and she always smiles and stuffs when I talk to her.

I asked her for a coffee after class one day and she said she doesn't drink coffee and that she's going to the lab. But after 30 mins I discovered her with another chick standing there in the juice bar queue!

The other day I sent her a sms asking how she's doing and she responded that she's doing ok. Then I sent her another sms asking if I cud call..she said "No, i am busy at this moment".. so I never called back and she never calls me as well.

But she says "Hi" whenever we meet in class or in campus. If I start a conversation (it's always me) she responds and sometimes even ask questions! But it's not getting any better than this.

Should I push it further or move on to the next one?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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[look]aRhino

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put her on the backburner. Just treat her as a friend.

You're the earth, and shes just one of the many satellites that rotate around your life.

So just treat her like that, give her a smile and a nod when you see her, and talk to her when you feel like it.

I'd actively seek out other chicks if I were you, and just set her aside for now, to be dealt with at a later date.

Rhino.
 

Krassus

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DON'T EVER ASK A GIRL IF YOU CAN DO ANYTHING. Call, talk, hug, kiss, fvck. Doesn't matter. You just do it. And to answer your question, she's not interested, and just trying to be polite. LJBF her.
 
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