"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what to do wid this chick

fillme

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Well, here's this chinese chick in my graduate school I really dunno what to do with.

I met her about an year ago in the orientation week and knew her ever since. but only recently became interested in her.

I *think* she's a shy type as I never seen her talking to any1 in da class except for 2-3 other chinese girls. Anyhows, lately I have started flirting with her...and she always smiles and stuffs when I talk to her.

I asked her for a coffee after class one day and she said she doesn't drink coffee and that she's going to the lab. But after 30 mins I discovered her with another chick standing there in the juice bar queue!

The other day I sent her a sms asking how she's doing and she responded that she's doing ok. Then I sent her another sms asking if I cud call..she said "No, i am busy at this moment".. so I never called back and she never calls me as well.

But she says "Hi" whenever we meet in class or in campus. If I start a conversation (it's always me) she responds and sometimes even ask questions! But it's not getting any better than this.

Should I push it further or move on to the next one?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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[look]aRhino

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put her on the backburner. Just treat her as a friend.

You're the earth, and shes just one of the many satellites that rotate around your life.

So just treat her like that, give her a smile and a nod when you see her, and talk to her when you feel like it.

I'd actively seek out other chicks if I were you, and just set her aside for now, to be dealt with at a later date.

Rhino.
 

Krassus

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DON'T EVER ASK A GIRL IF YOU CAN DO ANYTHING. Call, talk, hug, kiss, fvck. Doesn't matter. You just do it. And to answer your question, she's not interested, and just trying to be polite. LJBF her.
 
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